In 2022, the most current statistics available, there were 13,212 cases of domestic violence reported to the Florida Department of Law Enforcement for Polk, Hardee, and Highlands Counties. Many more cases go unreported.

October is recognized as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM), a time to increase understanding about DV and work to prevent it. One way you can help is by sharing resources like Peace River Center Victim Services 24-hour domestic violence hotlines:
Every October organizations across the world focus on increasing awareness about domestic violence.
Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) was launched nationwide in October 1987 as a way to connect and unite individuals and organizations working on domestic violence issues while raising awareness for those issues. Over the past 30+ years, much progress has been made to support domestic violence victims and survivors, to hold abusers accountable, and to create and update legislation to further those goals.


Before my abusive relationship experience, I never understood why a woman would stay in a relationship with an abuser. It was very cut and dry to me, and didn’t make any sense. What I didn’t realize from the outside is the abuse doesn’t necessarily start out in a very obvious way: it creeps in slowly like a poisonous gas. The more you breathe in the gas the less clear your thoughts become. By the time things starts happening that a sane person would recognize as abuse, it’s generally too late-you are no longer quite “sane.” Your sense of what has happened has been completely distorted by exhausting mental games and emotional torment. Your perception of reality has been twisted and manipulated so severely, you are no longer certain what to believe or even who you are. I think if someone hasn’t experienced that, it’s almost impossible to understand that you actually can be driven (temporarily) mad by another person. It’s also because most abuse happens privately. If you weren’t a victim, you probably only saw his best, most charming face- and if that was the person you “knew” it would be hard to imagine the dark truth of what happens behind closed doors.

It is a pattern of controlling behaviors— violence or threats of violence—that one person uses to establish power over an intimate partner in order to control that partner’s actions and activities. Domestic violence is not a disagreement, a marital spat, or an anger management problem. Domestic violence is abusive, disrespectful, and hurtful behaviors that one intimate partner chooses to perpetrate against the other partner.
Peace River Center’s Domestic Violence Program provides free, confidential services for individuals affected by domestic violence, sexual assault and human trafficking crimes, their family members and friends in Polk, Hardee and Highlands counties.
